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Children and their protection 4 years 2 months ago #1102

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Hello! I am here to start a topic about the most important thing in our life, about our children. If there are not children, there will not be any life in future. They continue our society and they should be protected.
The most important thing which should be mentioned here is the fact that children are vulnerable because their physical and psychological nature is not completed. They are at a level which asks protection and care from other people.
The best thing we can give them in a such period of life is our love and attention. Love is the greatest emotion which also includes protection. If we really love our children they will share the love they receive to other people and they will know how to express this wonderful sentiment.
Attention is also very important when we speak about children protection. Most of parent try to assure their children future from material aspect. They spend all the time working hard and getting money. It is a pity that that they don’t understand the main mission. Their main mission as parents is to offer attention to their children.
If these to things are completed, children will be protected and happy.
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Children and their protection 4 years 2 months ago #1108

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It is really difficult question to answer to.
Unfortunately, sometimes life doesn't have all answers on all questions.
Somethines bad parents who don't pay attention to their children have great successful and very loving children on contrary loving parents who do their best in parenting have egocentric and mean children.
But definitely parents don't have to ride the process of children parenting and have to observe some rules.
Firstly, as for me parents have to teach children to be independent and to not depend on judgement of others people. Also they have to know who to take responsibility for their actions. And we have to trust their decisions and never push. Children have to gain their own experience. It's their life and they don't have to catch what we didn't manage to do.
Secondly, we should not forget about attention to our children. We have to know their joys and sorrows, what they are worry about. And parents should never scoff about children's feelings.
Thirdly, good education and environment is extremely important.
And the last but not the least we as parents must be good examples for our children.
It is impossible to speak one thing and ti do other and hope that our children will believe in what we speak. Oh no, children see and notice everything
Here are the rules.
Maybe there are too many of them. But who said it would be easy :cheer: B)
But I think for parents it 's greatest pleasure in the world to their children happy and satisfied.
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Children and their protection 4 years 1 month ago #1344

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Yes undoubtedly it is a very challenging question. Personally I find that children are more vulnerable today than ever before. The crime levels are getting higher all the time. And the thing is that we see young people, who are not even of age, teenagers and even children as young as 2 years old among the offenders and perpetrators of the law! Yes a criminal of 2 years old sounds unbelievable but it is actually happening. I have read that it is the parents of such children who push them to commit a crime. Adult parents know that their children are too your to carry a full responsibility. And a juvenile offender will get away easily if they are caught on the scene of a crime.

So we see that children need even protection from their own parents if they are negligent about their responsibilities. Yes it is true a lot of the time spent by the parents ( and not only) at work to make money. I think it is happening because society pushes people to do so. We see a lot of advertisements on TV, in the mass media, in shops and other public places that make people think they should have this and that. It is like a race you get one thing then there is something else and again and again. The same can be said about children’s TV channels. There are ads after every 10-15 minutes telling and encouraging the kids to get another toy, food and God knows what else. Seeing all these kids grow materialistic and moan to the parents, grandparents and other relatives to get more and more staff. These are not things that will make you a happy person but just a fad. People buy the things they think they need for themselves or their kids. But they don’t really need. You might think you desperately want something but you don’t need it. I think it is important to educate the kids and set good examples and role models. Only then they will be able to distinguish the truth from lies.
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Children and their protection 4 years 1 month ago #1347

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It seems to me that every child is different and the approach to him or her is also should be individualized. But from my experience I can say that all children need :
1. Attention! In fact most children need attention of parents! They don't need gifts they need friendly embrace and to be part in joint plans and actions.
2. Respect and understanding! It seems to me that here is no explanation is needed.
3. Border! Children need to know what they are allowed to do and what are not. And that arguments are extremely necessary, I mean explaining the meaning of your decisions.
4. Condor! Of course there is no need to tell to the child all details of vicissitudes of life, but you do not have to from your children your mood or state.

Do not be afraid of making mistakes ! After all, there are no perfect parents. Love is essential thing that parents have to give to their child.
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Children and their protection 4 years 4 weeks ago #1466

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Yes of course every child is different just the same as every adult is. The children are just too little and can not express themselves so clearly as adults do. And that is why it is not easy sometimes to see their personality. Nowadays there are so many books and approaches to children that they even can contradict. One of the examples that come to my mind today is correcting the bad behavior of a naughty kid. Say a child is being naughty and a parent should show the borders, should then he or she just explain by words or can spank a little rascal as well? After all the children need protection not just from the outside world but also from themselves when their actions may have bad implications or they do something wrong. Just today I read in the news the article with such a title “Father Fined For Spanking Son”. It happened in France and a man was fined €500. S the article says “ sentence has sparked a debate in France over the traditional approach to parenting. Father defended himself saying that he was just doing his job as a parent and he was living in a "current fashion that does not want us to discipline children".
It is true that kids need discipline, without that they will grow selfish inpatient, rude and disrespectful not just to their parents but they can also become criminals thinking that they can do whatever they want. In today’s world there is a juvenile justice that is criticized by many for interfering and tearing apart families and telling parents how to bring up the children. There so many cases when social workers took away kids from the families only because they didn’t like or didn’t agree with the way parents brought up or treated their own children. As it is said the children are our future. So it is necessary to invest and take a great care of it right now.
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Children and their protection 4 years 2 weeks ago #1597

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I think children protection is parent’s duty. Child is little and doesn’t understand even simple thing, what he can do and what no. We, adults should protect them even from themselves, because sometime child can hurt himself.
And I think we should not only protect them, but educate also. We have to show much attention to our children and take care about them. If child see only bad attitude from childhood he can grow up in a criminal. And therefore, we have to show a good and kind attitude to him. From a good family can’t grow up a bad guy.
For taking child in protection he must listen his parent. But to make child obedient it a great work and in some cases (when child is problem) an art, which nor every parent can reach. And to resolve this problem some parent read books, some parent go to specialist and some take an advice from friends, who has the same problem. I think more effective is experience of friends, because in books more theory, specialist not every time can understand all situation, because doesn’t have enough time or something else.
We can’t protect child from everything, because we can’t be with him everywhere. But we can teach our child to take decision, and child who can think himself, grow up in an intelligent adult, because he doesn’t rely on parents. In an unexpected situation he will not lose courage, but he will find the appropriate decision.
Also I think that we have to limit viewing TV, because there are so much violence, incivility and bad things. We have to give advice our children what to see, for example better to see a kind cartoon or program about animals, than a cruel move. And it has to be strict discipline for their own good. When child do whatever he wants it bring to selfish and rude person. But in same time we have to love them, to give our attention, because without our love they will grow up unsure and asocial people.
And one way to do child happy and protected listen him, respect him and a lot of love to him.
Good luck! ;)
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